Whether you’re just starting out with online dating, or you’re just looking to find some more matches, here are ten things to avoid writing in your online dating profile:

Here are five tips to ensure you and your date have an enjoyable experience:

1) Don’t write off online dating.

At the end of the day, everyone just wants to be loved. There are different ways of finding love, including through online dating. You don’t want to come across as negative and insensitive, so even if you’re skeptical, give online dating a proper chance.

2) Don’t lie.

This is also a tip for everyday life. Specifically with online dating, however, don’t lie about yourself – your height, weight, age etc. The truth always comes out in the end. It’s okay to keep some stuff to yourself, but it’s not okay to deceive people just to get a date.

3) Don’t list your financial expectations.

We all want a successful partner, but meaningful connections are always more important than financial status. Remember, you don’t want to come across as a golddigger.

4) Don’t mention your ex.

Talking about your ex conjures up the image that you still aren’t over them, and that can be a huge barrier to a trusting relationship.

5) Don’t complain too much.

Sure, you may have had bad dates in the past, and you’ve probably been single for longer than you would like to have been, but negativity is a huge turn off. Positivity is the name of the game. Focus on your strengths and what you have to offer.

5) Don’t rattle on.

Keep your profile short and sweet. People won’t pay much attention to your profile if it contains a wall of text.

6) Don’t complain too much.

Sure, you may have had bad dates in the past, and you’ve probably been single for longer than you would like to have been, but negativity is a huge turn off. Positivity is the name of the game. Focus on your strengths and what you have to offer.

7) On the other hand, don’t be too vague.

Complete your profile using information that accurately describes you. Be interesting and stand out from the crowd.

8) Don’t make demands.

It is very easy to push people away by making demands of them. You shouldn’t “expect” things like constant attention, love, and affection. Instead, try to write about how you can make others’ lives better.

9) Don’t give away too much personal information.

Strangers shouldn’t be privy to information that personally identifies you, such as your last name, home address, place of work, etc. Make sure to double-check what information you’re making accessible.

10) Don’t leave areas blank.

Take the time to fill out all areas of your online dating profile. It shows people that you may also take the time to get to know them. Knowing yourself well enough to fill out all areas shows confidence, and confidence is attractive.

All the best!